Bahar a young woman living in Germany wrote: When you see me on the street I am veiled but do not think I am a Muslim. I have been forced to veil by my father and brothers; they will kill me if I don’t. Before I felt alone, but now I know I am not. This is a message she sent to Mina Ahadi, founder of the central council of ex-Muslims in Germany.
Of course, Bahar is not alone. There are innumerable women and girls in Asia, the Middle East and North Africa to right here in the heart of Europe who know from personal experience what it means to be female under Islam – hidden from view, bound, gagged, mutilated, murdered, without rights, and threatened and intimidated day in and day out for transgressing Islamic mores.
The veil, more than anything else, symbolises this bleak reality.
In my opinion, it is therefore impossible to address the status of women under Islamic laws and defend women’s rights without addressing and denouncing the veil.
And this is why the veil is the first thing that Islamists impose when they have any access to power.
And also why improper veiling, its removal and its burning at demonstrations and gatherings – as often seen in Iran for example – or its removal when one leaves the home – in places where it is not the law of the land but that of self-appointed imams and family members – has become a symbol of resistance.
I know our opponents often argue that there are many more pressing matters with regards to women’s status. Why all the fuss they ask?
To me, it is like asking what all the fuss was about racial apartheid – or segregation of the races – in apartheid South Africa. After all there were so many pressing issues faced by Blacks in that country. I suppose that is why the then South African government kept asserting that separate does not mean unequal (which incidentally is an argument Islamists make all the time). We know otherwise.
And we know – at least in hindsight – why the physical act of segregation was crucial and symbolic of what it meant to be Black under apartheid.
Similarly, the veil is a symbol of sexual apartheid and the segregation of the sexes. In countries where Islam rules, like in Iran, the separate entrances for women in certain government offices; separate areas for women’s seating on buses for example; the banning of women from certain public arenas like sport stadiums; a curtain dividing the Caspian sea for segregated swimming and so on is what it means in practice to be a female under Islam. That people transgress these rules daily is a testimony to their humanity and not the laws or state that imposes it by force.
When we talk about the situation in Iran, some of these apologists will concede that compulsory veiling must be opposed (though I have yet to hear them oppose it other than in their argument’s in defence of the veil) but if it is a choice freely made than one must defend the ‘right’ to veil.
I wholeheartedly disagree. Adult women may have the ‘right’ to veil though that right is in no way absolute as many rights aren’t and a completely different matter for children – which I will come to later. But having the right to do something is very different from defending the ‘freely chosen’ veil or the ‘right to veil’. There may be women who ‘freely choose’ to genitally mutilate their daughters or immolate themselves on their husband’s funeral pyre but that does not mean that we must then defend the right of women to do so or defend the practice of Suttee or FGM. The defence of rights is not about making everyone agree as you will always find people who will defend and commit the indefensible – and that is what religion is in my opinion. It is about protecting human beings sometimes even from themselves.
The usage of the term choice in this context is extremely deceptive. First off in many places like Iran it is the law of the land. You are fined, arrested, beaten, imprisoned and even killed for transgressing the veil and Islamic mores.
In others where it is not the law, it is effectively so because of pressure and intimidation from the parasitical self-appointed so-called community and Islamic leaders, and family members.
One example of this is the joint statement about the veil from ‘Muslim groups, scholars and leaders’ in Britain which has stated that the veil ‘is not open to debate’. The statement goes so far as to ‘advise all Muslims to exercise extreme caution in this issue since denying any part of Islam may lead to disbelief’ and to urge them to ‘keep this debate within the realm of scholarly discussion amongst the people of knowledge and authority in the Muslim community.’
A recent Channel 4 Dispatches programme recorded a mullah in Green Lane mosque in Birmingham saying ‘Allah has created the woman deficient’ and a satellite broadcast from the Grand Mufti of Saudi Arabia, Sheikh Abdul Aziz al-Sheikh, beamed into the mosque suggesting that children should be hit if they don’t pray and if they don’t wear the hijab.
You’ve also all heard Australia’s senior Islamic cleric, Sheik Taj Aldin al-Hilali comparing unveiled women to ‘uncovered meat’ implying that they invite rape and sexual assault. ‘If you take out uncovered meat and place it outside … without cover, and the cats come to eat it … whose fault is it, the cats’ or the uncovered meat’s? The uncovered meat is the problem. If she was in her room, in her home, in her hijab, no problem would have occurred.’
Whilst misogynist sermons are the norm in mosques across the world, and across religions, these are a few examples of how a climate of intimidation and fear makes many a woman ‘choose’ the veil even in places where veiling is not compulsory.
Remove these, and I would even go so far as to say, that there will be few who will ‘choose’ to live in a mobile prison – other than those who want to show their allegiance to the rising political Islamic movement.
Also, a ‘woman’s right to choose’ must be preceded at the very least by legal and social sexual equality. This is not the case for most. So if you consider the veil on a social scale, it represents neither a right nor a choice and it is a lie to say otherwise.
Of course, women wearing mini-skirts and Jimmy Choos may be under pressure from the fashion industry’s impossible ideals – as we often hear argued in defence of the veil – but it is as ridiculous to compare mini-skirts with the veil, as it is to compare Jimmy Choos with foot binding, which aims at preventing women from ‘wandering’.
The veil is not a piece of cloth or clothing, though it is often compared to miniskirts or other ‘lewd’ forms of clothing the rest of us unveiled women seem to wear. Just as the straight jacket or body bag are not pieces of clothing. Just as the chastity belt was not a piece of clothing. Just as the Star of David pinned on Jews during the holocaust was not just a bit of cloth.
This of course does not mean that only women under Islam or veiled women are oppressed. But it is important to oppose the veil in its own right.
And this has nothing to do with being hate-filled or promoting an attack on Muslims or veiled women though Islamists portray it as such. Interesting coming from a reactionary right wing movement that has turned murder and mayhem into an art form, but as I have said before, opposing FGM does not mean you are attacking those who are mutilated; opposing foot binding or Suttee likewise. In fact, it is an essential to a principled defence of women’s rights.
And this is why the chador, burqa and neqab must be banned – to defend women’s rights. Not because they affects interaction, communication and so on. These are side effects. And certainly not because they may make people like Jack Straw uncomfortable. It has to be banned because sexual apartheid is as unacceptable as racial apartheid. Because it is unacceptable for women to be segregated in the 21 century; and for women to walk around in a mobile prison or body bag because religion deems that they be kept invisible.
Any mention of a ban, though, quickly raises cries of authoritarianism. As an aside, it is interesting how much religion can get away with and that its decree for example that women be veiled is not considered authoritarian. But more importantly, a ban is not necessarily bad. Society bans many things in order to safeguard and protect the people living in it, often due to left and progressive social movements demanding it. For example, child labour is banned, so is FGM, child pornography, rape and so on. A ban in such situations is a good thing; it helps to stop abuses from taking place. The argument that banning will only increase the burqa or neqab is ridiculous when used in other examples pertaining to defending people’s rights but is somehow considered proper discourse when it comes to the veil.
Also calling for a ban does not necessarily mean you want to or will criminalise a segment of the population. For example, there is a rule to wear a helmet when driving a motorbike but I don’t think there are hundreds of Sikhs languishing in British jails for not doing so. Or for that matter people who smoke in non-smoking areas, and size zero models…
Islamists and their apologists demand that we respect people’s religious expressions and beliefs. As I have said many a time, we are duty bound to respect human beings but not every belief or religious expression. Having the right to a belief and religion is not the same as it being a no go area to do as it pleases free of any criticism or condemnation.
Also they say that it is racist to criticise Islam, the veil and political Islam. What rubbish. You cannot be racist against an idea or belief or ideology or its expression. Racism is distinctions, exclusions, restrictions or preferences based on race, colour, descent, or national or ethnic origin (albeit constructed) of individuals – of human beings – not their beliefs. Saying it is so is just another attempt at silencing all opposition and criticism.
A ban on the burqa, chador, neqab and its likes is important but it is no where enough. The hijab or any conspicuous religious symbol must be banned from the state and education and relegated to the private sphere. This helps to ensure that government offices and officials from judges, to clerks, to doctors and nurses are not promoting their religious beliefs and are instead doing their jobs. In the same way that a teacher can’t teach creationism instead of evolution and science in the classroom; a pharmacist can’t refuse contraceptive pills to a women because of her beliefs; a male doctor can’t refuse to treat a woman patient or vice versa.
Finally, child veiling must be banned full stop. This is a children’s rights issue. While adults may ‘choose’ veiling or a religion, children by their very nature cannot make such choices; what they do is really what their parents tell them to do. Again the use of the term choice here is deceptive. Children must be protected even if they ‘choose’ to stay with abusive parents, to work to support poor families or to stop attending school.
Children have the absolute right to be children – nothing must be allowed to segregate them or restrict them from accessing information, advances in society and rights, playing, swimming and in general doing things children must do. Whatever their beliefs, parents do not have the right to impose their beliefs, including veiling on children just because they are their own children, just as they can’t deny their children medical assistance or beat and neglect them or marry them off at 9 because it’s part of their beliefs or religion. Child veiling is a form of child abuse and has to be stopped.
Throughout history, progress and change have come about not by appeasing, apologizing or excusing reaction, but by standing up to it firmly and unequivocally. This is what has to be against Islam, political Islam and the veil.
We have to state loud and clear that sexual apartheid has no place in the 21st century; enough is enough.
The above is Maryam Namazie’s speech at a March 8 seminar on Women’s Rights, the Veil and Islamic and religious laws in London. Maryam is Director of the Worker-communist Party of Iran’s International Relations Committee, 2005 National Secular Society’s Secularist of the Year Award Winner and producer of International TV. Other speakers were Mina Ahadi is founder of Central Council of Ex-Muslims; Sonja Eggerickx: President of the International Humanist and Ethical Union; Ann Harrison: Researcher, Middle East and North Africa Department of Amnesty International’s International Secretariat; and Taslima Nasrin: Physician, writer, radical feminist, human rights activist and secular humanist.
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Valerie
I think I have read this somewhere before. Nevertheless it's still a good read.
It's quite shameful that Muslim women are often treated like trash, instead of being treated fair like their other Muslim brothers. I once saw a Muslim woman being beaten and rocks were thrown at her. It was really heart-wrenching. I tried to stop one of the assailants, but someone dragged me back, and told me to not to interfere.
Really, it's a shame. Why?
I agree with Valerie on this one. Muslim or not, they should have equal rights. Those who abuse ones' rights should be punished and not left alone.
Cheers,
Scott
It is a sad thing to consider. Especially if you are fortunate enough to be a woman and find yourself in a society that respects and honor women. You can be in a better position to understand what these females in the Islamic world are going through. They don't have a say in their own life, a man deditates every thing to these ladies and if they should do well to disobey they receive more punishment, sometimes severer than what a strong man can bear. There should be a movement to give women in such situations more freedom over their lives.
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Framo
it is a painful act to see women degraded in such a manner all in the name of religion.When I heard "mutilation" in the article,I said to myself want it be nice to have some health education on the subject to see it can change the minds of some of the die hard islamist.
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i'm a muslim. i don't force my daughter to caver. it depends on her faith. if she don't believe the fact whats is the use? but she happily cover her whenever goes out like me. she knows she don't have to show off her body parts like a toothpaste add. .
I definately do not agree I think that you are instead stripping people, women and children of their life with culture, tradition and values. Clearly you were not raised in a good home and that can be seen by your words and actions
@SOS – Well the picture you paint is hardly representative and it ignores the point that women and children in Muslim domestic setting are equally vulnerable to random abuse.
The difference is that in the western democratic system the victims of this kind of abuse would have recourse to law – in principle at least.
Maryam – you are a hero for speaking out and defending all our democratic rights and freedoms. Never give up – you do have support. How about a Secularist political party to unite all those who oppose the influence of any religion in public life?
brought tears to my eyes. i totally agree.
I believe we must respect different religious views; even a naturalistic approach is a form of religion as well; that is why I find people should respect eachother; humanists, so called atheïsts as Sonja Eggerickx, the president of humanism in Belgium, should not be so arrogant about what people find necessary to lead a beautiful life. I hope love will win forever; not arrogance.
“NO ONE IS GOING TO THROW ACID IN YOUR FACE IF YOU DON’T BARE YOUR BREASTS,”Unless,ofcourse, you are being brutally raped and violently attacked in a domestic setting where your drunken husband who’s just had sex with one of his four mistresses, who’s been carrying an STI, perhaps even AIDS – one of the mistresses carries HIS (DEFORMED, HANDICAPPED due to DRUGS & ALCOHOL))child,(or one of five to six (not on Sundays!) men she slept with that week only), he’s lost all of his money on gambling at the bookies and on his mistress, he’s cracking-up,(probably BI-POLAR) his wife, beaten and abused over the years, certainly IS MAD…for being with him, but how can she ESCAPE? Her drunken, psychopathic, violent, husband ABUSES not only her but his little girl too – SEXUALLY (incest?) The kids suffering at school,no friends, a sociopath! Wait till that kid gets a little older??? The teachers are concerned about the bruises, and the blood stains in her panties!the father will end-up a dosser,RAPE-PISSED,(SUICIDE?) mother a prostitute, Heroin JUNKIE, (SUICIDE?) the KID, (SUICIDE? PSYCHOPATH/SERIAL KILLER? MENTAL ASYLUM?)well…PEOPLE LIKE MARIAM NAMAZIE – WHO SAY THAT we in THE WEST have NO PROBLEMS!! YES! BLAME THE MUSLIMS!!! PATHETIC!! REMEMBER, WESTERN SYPHILISATION IS IN ITS DECLINE – OH! I WONDER WHY? THYANKS MARIAM, SPEND THE REST OF YOUR LATER YEARS IN AN OLD PEOPLES HOME, ROTTING-AWAY LIKE A ROTTEN CABBAGE. PLEASE HELP US! THE MUSLIMS ARE DOING FAR BETTER THAN US, we will soon become EXTINCT!
Ever notice how the majority of time its MEN who pander tothe misogynism in Islam…gee, go figure.You go girl and you got one right here in solidarity with you and with the womyn worldwide fighting to have a right to breathe,westerners don’t really grasp, seriously, what it is, to have extremism FORCED, thats a huge part of the issue, i have heard similar pro-tolerance claims in the far left [i used to be in a socialist party and the men, so many of them were apologetics, but hey, they were sexist themselves to THE CORE] so i dumped that party and now am just independent,but thats just it, the claim that, well we are influenced by media, etc to bare all, but we have a CHOICE HERE, NO ONE IS GOING TO THROW ACID IN YOUR FACE IF YOU DON’T BARE YOUR BREASTS,but in majority of Islamic countries, try going without a veil even,its like, stepping into a line of fire, LITERALLY, and THATS WHAT MANY WESTERNERS ‘DON’T GET’,in the West, many of the womyn who say, ‘oh i wear it because i’m free too’,i’m not so sure they are so ‘free’ to,i was engaged to a Shite Muslim, so i speak from KNOWING,majority of Muslim womyn i knew, weren’t free to do squat,they did, what they WERE TOLD TO DO, BY BROTHERS, FATHERS, HUSBANDS, COUSINS…OH, BUT THE MEN, NOW THE MEN, WERE FREE TO CAROUSE AT BARS, PICK UP ‘WESTERN WHORES’ AS THEY LOVED TO BRAG, BEAR THEIR ARMS, ETC…but DARE THE WOMYN, SHOW AN ELBOW!!!hell dare they even Speak up in the home, they’d get the crap beat out of them or worse,RIGHT IN A SOCIETY WHERE THERE ARE LAWS AGAINST SUCH BRUTAL ABUSES…in our own BACKYARDS, these ABUSES OCCUR DAILY, WITHIMPUNITY. TOTAL IMPUNITY,and THE MUSLIMS KNOW IT.Many don’t grasp, that if you are born and raised with those beliefs, as a woman, you have two choices,resist AND PAY THE PRICE AND FOR MANY THAT MEANS DEATH,or adapt, adapt and attribute that adaptation,and its not just Muslim womyn who do this, its womyn working in the sex industry [due to economic coercion or force/violence] or womyn living under Fundmentalist Christianity, etc…they adapt and they accept and internalize,why? well, its either that, or go mad, insane, humans will identify with their oppressors and oppressive beliefs when they have no choice but to do so,and for those who live and have the freedom to choose, they don’t grasp this fact. Its one thing, to be on the outside, with relative freedom and say, ‘well its a matter of individual choice’,and another, when you sit, in that place, where you know, its not about choice, its about, you do because YOU ARE FORCED TO,and its tragic that usually its not until the ‘gun’ is at the head, taking away freedom or imposing a religion or religious tradition, etc.,that then, the people see, they SEE, by that time however,ITS TOO LATE.Keep up the good work and know, you are not alone, you have support….from another radical LEFTIST feminist,Tasha
muslims
muslim, can’t usually tolerate anyone who disagrees with their worldview and their most often used tool is to call them names or behead them.
Crazy is not understanding what she is saying. Ignorance can come in any style. I agree with her 100%.
lady you’re crazy. you’re blaming the people’s mistakes..people say wrong, Islam doesnt. There’s no compulsion in religion. There are a lot of ignorant people out there and yu seem to be one.
I’m going to reprint this on my blog today.
i think the core of the problem is that parents hand down beliefs to the children they bring up.it’s foolish to try and legislate against that – and that’s what these banning rules fundamentally seem to be pushing for.ensuring freedom of expression by banning particular expressions seems absurd to me.
Really good speech. Very well reasoned, without rhetoric.